1. Whenever I am holding Grant, there is an immediate need for mommy to do something that requires TWO hands. Juice refills, shoes re-tied, wipe his bum, etc.
2. This afternoon at lunch, he looked me in the eye and dumped his juice all over the floor.
3. Grant was crying for his bottle today and while I prepared it, Tommy marched around the house with his hands over his ears saying he couldn't "hear" anything.
4. After dinner, he bit the tip off his marker and spit it on the floor. This was AFTER he colored all over my window and woodwork with it...and AFTER I had told him that coloring time was over.
5. While I was feeding the baby, Tommy snuck into the living room and ate 5 hershey kisses from the candy jar. Wrappers and all. How do I know this? He walked up to me...opened his mouth and showed me the wrapper remnants. Lovely.
Time for mommy and daddy to start strategizing! I pulled him aside tonight after the marker incident and asked him why he had done it. He explained that during our reading time, I had to stop reading his police book because the baby was hungry and that made him angry. So we had a big talk and came up with a code word that he could say that let's me know he is feeling bad. When he says it, we are supposed to designate a time (immediate or future) when the two of us can sit down and spend some quality time together. We'll see how it goes!